1. Pamper me. I know very well that I do not have anything I want, need.
second Have no fear intended to deal with me. I prefer. I know where I stand.
third Do not force me. That teaches me that only one power. I respond better to instructions.
4th Do not be changeable. This confuses me and I try all the more to achieve what I want.
5th be Do not make promises, it could be that you do not comply they can. The shaken my confidence in Dir
6th Failing on my challenges in, if I say something or do, just to bring you out of the socket. Then I will try for still more to achieve such "victories".
7th Do not worry too much if I say: "I hate you!" I mean it's not like I just want it to you sorry if you have done to me.
8th Do not make me less I feel like I am. Then I'll act like that is a great guy.
9th Do not do anything for me what I can not do it yourself. Then I feel like a baby and put you in my service.
10th Do not be dealing too much with my bad habits. This causes me to maintain that is it.
11th Correct me not in front of other people. It impressed me a lot more if you speak calmly and with me.
12th Do not try to discuss my behavior during a dispute. For some reason I can hear at this time not so good and my cooperation is even worse. You can even discuss trade, but we should again later.
13th Do not try to preach. You will wonder how well I know what is right or wrong.
14th Do not tell me that my mistakes are sins. I have to learn to make mistakes without believing that I'm so bad.
15th Not whiners. To protect myself I have to pretend I was deaf.
16th Do not demand explanations for my wrong behavior. I really do not know why I did it.
17th My honesty into question. I am easily frightened and tell lies.
18th Do not forget that I like to do experiments. I learn it, so let me anyway.
19th Protect me from consequences. I need to learn from experience.
20th Give my little suffering is not so much attention. It could be that I used to learn to appreciate a weak constitution when it enters me so much attention.
21st Withdraw you do not know if I really want something. Otherwise you will find that I stop asking and seek my answers elsewhere.
22nd Do not answer silly and meaningless questions. I would like You deal with me.
23rd Do not think it is beneath your dignity to apologize to you with me. An honest apology makes me warm feelings towards you.
24th Never interpret that you are perfect or infallible. You were a great example to me.
25th Do not get anxious when I am afraid. Because then I will still scary. Show me dear heart!
26th Do not worry, that you have too little time for me. What counts is as we spend this time.
27th Do not forget that I thrive without a lot of understanding and encouragement can not. But I need to tell you but do not or?
Treat me like you treat your friends, then I'll be your third!
Remember that I learn more from a model than a critic.
From: Vicky Solz, Study Group Leader's Manual, Chicago
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